When we finally get to heaven, Nigerians (Africans generally) would need to be held in orientation camps for a while because, ojú ti rí (translation: we’ve been through a lot). Our minds have been violated for so long that we’d need a renewal of our minds first to fit into…
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Ecofeminism: Women as Stewards of the Earth
From earth goddesses to creation theories, there are countless symbolisms about women and their deep ties to the earth. An example is the folktale in the Yoruba oral tradition, of Osun, the goddess of river, and The Earth Mother —-PAPA (Haumea and Ka Luahine) of native Hawaiian mythology. In the…
INSIDE: THE WILD WORLD OF NIGERIAN FEMINISTS
The Four Types of Feminists You Should Know In my journey through life, I’ve come across various types of “feminists”, especially as a Black woman from Nigeria. These encounters have been a trip, and I’d like to take you on a wild ride through the world of “Nigerian feminists.” Prepare…
Breaking Tradition: Why I Want a Black Wedding Dress
I’d love to have a black wedding dress! Yes, I said so. Before I even start to talk about why, take a look at this beauty below. Just look- at – it! Well, I need to pick my jaw up off the floor staring at it too! Did you think…
Gender Stereotypes and How They Manifest in Everyday Life
Recently, I read the book “Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps” by Allan and Barbara Pease. The book attempts to explain how the male and female gender are different from each other and what to do about it. It explained the “nature” versus “nurture” argument and why…
Keeping the Flame Alive: Tips for Sustaining Love and Connection
Love is a beautiful journey, but like any journey, it requires effort and attention to keep the flame burning bright. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting out, maintaining a deep and meaningful connection with your partner is essential for a fulfilling and lasting bond. Here are some…